"It matters much if ..."

                 

                            we might take some care in our interactions

I have recently read in a collection of writings by Sigmund Freud
the definition of  a narcissistic way of thinking...
this definition is what I wrote down
NARCISSISTC= when the satisfaction of the instincts is partially
                              or totally withdrawn from the influence of
                              other  people."

so what is problem with that?
I do not understand why so many people feel that
"group think" is superior to individuality.


"It matters much if from a running well
We drink, or from a dark and stagnant pool."   Martial